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wedding dresses in red and white Red Lace Wedding Dress with Ivory Tulle, Strapless Sweetheart NecklineDESCRIPTION Red Lace Wedding Dress with Ivory Tulle, Strapless Sweetheart Neckline and Fit & Flare Mermaid Skirt with Train Red and White Bridal Gown Special Thanks to my Real Bride Nathalie for sharing her Gorgeous pictures! You can also check a Video from my Nathalies Wedding to see how the dress is looking in motion here: https: vimeo. com 249270994Amazing Wedding Dress for a Vivid Bride! Beautiful Red Lace Flower Appliqus are scattered around the
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Red Lace Wedding Dress with Ivory Tulle, Strapless Sweetheart Neckline and Fit & Flare Mermaid Skirt with Train - Red and White Bridal Gown
Special Thanks to my Real Bride Nathalie for sharing her Gorgeous pictures! You can also check a Video from my Nathalie’s Wedding to see how the dress is looking in motion here: https://vimeo.com/249270994
Amazing Wedding Dress for a Vivid Bride!
Beautiful Red Lace Flower Appliqués are scattered around the Bodice and Fading Out towards the skirt!
They are stitched on Ivory Tulle, just enough to give some Brightness but still keep a Wedding look! Dress is Fitted on the Top Part and it Flares Out into a Mermaid Skirt with Tulle Train. Neckline is made in a Feminine Sweetheart Shape and Back is secured with Functional Buttons over the Zipper. There is a Boning and Bra Cups inside to create and keep nice body shape.
I think this Gown is just Perfect! But even if You would like to customize a part of it, I can do it for You! Because Your Dress will be Fully Custom, made Just For You in Your Custom Measurements!
If You LOVE the design but not ready to give up the classics then I can make Your Dress Fully in Ivory. It’s really up to Your Choice!
I Highly Recommend!
My Dear Bride, To complete Your look to the most Beautiful with Harmony, I can make a Lace Edged Veil matching with Your Dress. It will complete Your Look and You will be Just Amazing on Your Big Day!
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CUSTOM MEASUREMENTS
My Dear Bride,
You can get your measurements at home. It's a very simple process.
Just please ask help of someone at home and follow my instructions.
If possible, you may also go to a professional tailor for assistance.
Please click on the image below to see or print my How to Measure Instructions:
Click to Download Full Instructions in PDF
NOTE 1:
If your style don't have sleeves, then you can skip the measurements #9, #10, #11, #12, #13.
Depending on a particular style, I may need additional measurements. After you placed your order, I will inform you about this.
NOTE 2:
All my professional effort and care is to make Your Dress fit You well. However due to nature of custom orders, when You receive Your Dress You may need some alterations so please budget accordingly and plan for some alterations with help of a Local Tailor.
NOTE 3:
If your measurements are in Plus Size Range, then I may require additional Fee. This can be cleared up after you place your order.
STANDARD MEASUREMENTS
I suggest that you send me Your Custom Measurements to get a better fitting. But if somehow You are unable to get Your Custom Measurements, then please choose from my Standard Size Chart Below:
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Tips About Color
I work with Ivory Laces (My Ivory is like Warm White - It' not yellowish).
Because in my style and understanding, Ivory is the Best to give that warm Vintage effect to My Dresses.
If you want to change the color of Your Dress to different than the one shown in the photos, then please leave your note in your order note or contact me via Live Chat which you can find on the right bottom corner of any page and I will assist you with my comments.
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★★★★★ 5
After all, chidren are good inside.
Format: Kindle
Parenting is about how parents treat their kids. One important aspect of what counts for good parenting is how we face the kids’ negative behaviors. When we were children, our parents did not respect our emotional needs. They only scolded us when we were naughty. After we become parents, we treat our kids the way our parents treated us. Dr Becky proposes in this book, contrary to what our parents thought, children are all good inside and thus we should treat children’s bad behaviors as if their misbehaviors are signs that they don’t know how to express their needs. With this assumption, there are three implications for parenting.
First, as children are good inside, what they do outside should not be our focus. Whether it is emotional tantrums, not listening, aggressive tantrums, sibling rivalry, rudeness and defiance, whining, lying, food habits, parents should not pay too much attention to it. Instead, parents should see the cause that contributes to the resulting negative behavior. Take whining as an example. Whining, according to a Cambridge dictionary, means ‘to make a long, high, sad sound’. As parents we are easily annoyed by whining and we quickly think that kids are disrespectful. In Dr Becky’s view, whining=strong desire+powerlessness. Children whine because they feel helpless and ‘indicate they feel alone and unseen in their desires’ (p.188), rather than because they are arrogant. What does this imply? Do we have to give in, knowing that they are desperate for connection and feeling powerful? The answer is no. Dr Becky said ‘while our job as parents is to make decisions that we feel are right for our kids even in the face of protest, we can still practice understanding and connecting’. While saying no, which they probably know they do need, at the same time we can give them the sympathy they also need. Thinking that kids are bad inside often leads to power struggles or arguments when we request them to request in an appropriate tone again. Kids are good inside, and thus we should focus our attention on how to respond to their helplessness rather than their whines.
Secondly, not only should we not focus on their outside behavior, we should also be aware that what is on the surface often contrasts with what the kid feels inside. One of the most-feared emotions we are afraid to see children have is anger, also known as tantrums. When children are angry, they display undesirably violent behaviors such as hitting others. Dr Becky points out that they hit not because they are angry, but because they are scared. When we adults are afraid, we may also kill people if we are irrational. Children have not yet developed their prefrontal cortex which is responsible for logic and language, and so the most severe reaction they can possibly express is through tantrums. We may wonder why children are afraid: they are “terrified of the sensations, urges, and feelings coursing inside their body” (p.158) such as frustration and anxiety. These feelings which adults are used to feel scary to kids. Naming the right emotion is the first step to solving the problem and helping kids to cope with it.
Only after we identify correctly the emotion the children are experiencing can we as parents exert the right method to deal with the out-of-control behavior. Clearly we know reprimanding our kids is not correct because “they are good inside”. To stop the kid's aggressive tantrums effectively, parents should assert their authority. Parents should show the confidence that they are in charge of the situation. Then, the next critical step is to maintain the kid's safety. Regardless of how the kid feels, the parent should stop the dangerous behavior the kid is engaging in, which Dr Becky calls containment. She says it best: “kids don’t feel good when they are out of control”. That we assert our authority and contain even though kids are not happy on the surface is an act of love, maturity, and responsibility. If we don't, not only will it cause injury, it will make children think we evade responsibility, thus making them feel more overwhelmed.
To conclude, as parents we need to know our roles and our kids’ roles. Our job is to keep our children safe, both physically and psychologically. We need to remember that a gap exists between kids’ abilities to feel and their abilities to regulate their feelings, and the gap manifests as deregulated behavior. While it is children’s job to explore and express their feelings, it is our job to help them regulate them by setting physical boundaries, validating their emotions, and being empathetic to their feelings. We are our kids’ role models. We are demonstrating to our kids the emotion regulation skills. As our kids are allowed to shout and protest because they are doing their jobs, we are also allowed to upset them when we set boundaries. We just need to remember that to do our job well, we must learn to connect with and understand them more because after all, children are good inside.
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Reviewed in the United States on February 4, 2025
★★★★★ 4
Good read
Very good basic subjective author. Some modern therapist offer a different perspective on rewards and child behavior, but to be expected in academia. As with any behavioral psychology observable or behavioral science documents - measure the subjective amount against the scientific controlling evidence being offerred. If no evidence - it is just subjective opinion.
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Reviewed in the United States on March 7, 2026
★★★★★ 5
Not JUST a Parenting Book
Format: Hardcover
Good Inside and Dr. Becky are everything the world needs now. A strong, sturdy perspective that truly, wholeheartedly believes in the good inside us all. That is truly not cheap talk. It. is. the. real. deal. This book is a parenting book that covers big picture philosophical understandings of parenthood AND the more practical, day-to-day implementation of said philosophies. Dr. Becky is incredible about explaining the underlying reasons for why kids do what they do and why WE respond as we do and then she talks us through exactly how to apply the "most generous interpretation" so that we can do better for the next generation AND for ourselves. Good Inside is also a REparenting book and a leadership book. She will teach you how to show up for the realness of your own life for yourself and for the kids that you love most dearly. Truly, there is not a better way to spend your money. Maybe go ahead and stock up on highlighters and your favorite pens too because, if you're like me, you will be highlighting and underlining left and right. It's truly that game-changing. Get ready to finally understand your job description as a parent and your kids' job descriptions as wonderful, little growing humans in the world. And if you yourself need healing from your own childhood, this will open the door for that too. I know that you, dear Amazon review reader, do not know me but I am not really prone to hyperbole. I do not feel it is an exaggeration to say that Dr. Becky and Good Inside is game-changing. This purchase is truly an investment in yourself and the kind of parent and person you want to be and an investment in your kids and their future.
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Reviewed in the United States on September 14, 2022
★★★★★ 5
Good advice overall
Format: Paperback
This is an interesting read to help with your child’s self esteem and behavior. The first several chapters on the psychology behind behavior were more helpful and interesting than the second half of the book that addresses specific behaviors. Also, if you follow Dr Becky on social media, most of her advice is already in her content. However, I’m glad I read this book, even it wasn’t life changing.
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Reviewed in the United States on March 20, 2026
★★★★★ 5
So incredibly helpful with sensitive kiddo
Format: Hardcover
This book has been so, so wonderfully helpful, my husband jokes it’s now my bible. Kiddo went from like 10-20 meltdowns a day to only a couple, and those are resolved in like a tenth of the time. I feel so much less frustrated and more connected, and able to handle it when he does dysregulate in a way that makes me proud. It’s also honestly been healing for me as a child of loving parents who nonetheless didn’t learn all this stuff and did a lot of invalidating and shaming. It’s great theory and very easily digestible and applicable practice combined. I wish I’d found it 3 years sooner and I can’t recommend it enough.
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Reviewed in the United States on September 13, 2025
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